One day last week, I spotted what seemed to me a large and intimidating spider suspended just below eye level on our back deck. Its huge web was spun from the eave down to the back of a wicker sofa then to the facing of the door into our sunroom, completing a sticky triangle that effectively blocked passage. Without much thought, I went to the closet to get a broom so I could sweep it all away.
I called out to Martha, who was sitting in the living room reading a book. “Do you want to see a big spider and its impressive web before I get rid of it?” She came to the kitchen window and peered out. “Wow,” she said. And then, after a pause, “She worked hard all day.”
Those words turned the broom in my hand into a weapon of mass destruction. “So you think I should leave her alone?” I asked. (Notice she was now personalized.) “Your choice,” Martha said, walking away from the window and back to the living room. When she sat down again, she called out, “Why don’t you find out what kind of spider it is?”
Such a reprieve seemed only fair. So I leaned the broom against the sunroom door and found my laptop. I searched “types of spiders” and scrolled through the images. I found a picture that seemed to match the creature I was eyeing with some trepidation, and then clicked the link to the website where it was identified. The fearful arachnid blocking passage from the sunroom to the deck turned out to be a “garden spider” whose bite was “unpleasant but harmless to humans.”
I closed the laptop, picked up the broom and went to the living room. I reported my finding to Martha and said, “I can’t very well destroy Charlotte. I guess I’ll leave her there as part of the protected wildlife in our backyard.” She looked up from her book, her face beaming with a triumphant grin.